Artists are compassionate, have an unmistakable zeal for life and can find beauty in almost everything – quite the catch to date, huh?
But, how does an artist convince someone outside the art industry that beneath their paint-stained clothes, crazy work stories about clients with bad taste and the nasty stereotype that artists are moody and brooding, that there’s a great partner there?
That’s where we come in…below are 10 reasons why YOU should date an artist!
1. They’re Passionate!
Everyone knows that passionless relationships are (yawn) boring. And because of this lack of delightful excitement, most times they’re doomed to crash and burn.
Maybe it’s the fact that artists are always looking to be inspired or share in the beauty of everyday life — but as long as you’re with a creative type, you’ll never again have to worry about a relationship that lacks passion, brightness or love. Artists are brimming with these awesome traits.
2. They’re Smart
Along with sense of humor and good looks, intelligence ranks at the top when it comes to desirable qualities in a mate. Artists have to take countless art and technique classes and MUST think on their feet all day solving everything from client issues to fixing an art piece gone terribly wrong. If you’re dating an artist, you can be pretty sure you aren’t dating a dummy.
3. You’ll Inspire Them and See Your Own Reflection in Their Work
Haven’t you always wanted a floor-to-ceiling portrait of you and your cat atop a plush velvet pillow?
Of course we kid — except maybe some of you have received such a treasure. Lucky you. The point is, artists are always looking for their next muse. Hopefully your relationship sends your other half filling blank canvases with reflections of you or better yet, how you make them feel.
4. They Make Their Own Hours
If your lifestyle caters to it, the odd hours can be an advantage. Are you stuck working the graveyard shift every Friday? If you’re dating an artist with the same irregular schedule, Mondays can become the new Friday. Say goodbye to long lines at the movie theater and the 45-minute wait at your favorite restaurant.
At the same time, an artist’s schedule can leave you with plenty of alone time while they’re toiling away in the studio. Not everyone wants to cuddle with his or her sweetie 24/7. For people who like a little alone time to read a novel, hang out with friends or work on your own art projects, dating an artist can be a good way to have your cake and eat it, too.
5. They Have Great Stories
Whether they work at a gallery, as a freelance illustrator or at a web design firm, artists can come across some pretty silly situations. Artists deal with strong (and wrong) client opinions, people with fantastically bad taste or bad critiques from know-nothings on a regular basis.
While some of those situations may be tough on the artist you’re dating, they can lead to some pretty entertaining stories for you. Be a listening ear and help them laugh off the tougher stuff.
6. They’re a Great Pictionary Partner
Prepare to make all your friends jealous because with an artist by your side, you’re set to dominate.
Whether you’re drawing Humpty-Dumpty, a tree house or Meryl Streep, your partner’s superior illustration skills will make Pictionary way less cryptic and infinitely more fun — although we can’t promise your friends will feel the same. Aw, we almost feel sorry for them…
7. You Might Get to See the World
Dating a traveling artist? Their nomadic lifestyle could give you the opportunity to travel, see, and live in new cities. Life on the road isn’t always easy, but for the right person, this could be a dream come true. Some people would give anything to get out and see the world with someone they love!
8. Their Creativity Usually Extends
Beyond the Canvas
Is there REALLY an explanation needed here? We’ll let you think about it.
9. They’ve Got Mad Skills
It’s so important to notice the talents, gifts and genius of your significant other. Not many of us can pick up a pencil, paintbrush or Wacom pen and create awe-inspiring work. He or she is incredibly gifted and that’s super sexy. Make time to appreciate their abilities, compliment them and support them in growing their passions and skills. We bet they do the same for you — that’s how it works!
10. Artists Rock!
Last but not least: Who WOULDN’T want to date an artist?
They‘re amazing! Becoming an artistic professional is no easy task and these individuals have persevered through thick and thin — and probably still are! You can feel good knowing that the artist you’re dating is creating a lot of happiness in this world just by doing what they do – even when they aren’t with you!
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This is too cute, yet so true! Love it..
I know my husband appreciates my creative “skills” but I honestly shouldn’t be with an artist, that relationship would be all over the place. My husband is my safe haven and gently stops me when I overshoot a little. And he keeps up with my new ideas that I come up with every day and plan A turns quickly into plan B, C or D? Whatever seemed like a good idea yesterday is not true any more today (or let’s say “improved” or “developed” as I put it). We artists are definitely good for an exciting relationship!
Franziska San Pedro
@FlavorDesigns
Hi Franziska-
Wouldn’t life without an artist be boring? lol! So true, artists are constantly inspired which can change our direction at any moment. I love being spontaneous.
Thanks again for the wonderful comment-
Lori 🙂
LOVE this article! Nice post. We artists love to be loved.
Yes we do! This was a fun article to post, and it seems to be a popular one so far. Maybe artists haven’t been feeling the love that they deserve??? Being an artist is such a solitary profession and we spend so much time ‘in our heads’…I am glad this article reaffirmed the greatness of an artist!
Cheers-
Lori
I love this so, so much! My husband and I left our stable non-artsy jobs to step out, move overseas, and pursue our artistic dreams. Having a sense of humor is key to enjoying the journey!
Hello Tina,
Thanks for taking time to share. Congrats to you and your husband on your creative journeys. I’d love to hear more about it! Wow, how wonderful to share that passion together.
Be well-
Lori 🙂
Nice post.
I guess I could find 10 reasons why to date a print maker 😉
This post is a fun one…yes, of course the same applies to an artsy print maker like yourself, Jean!
Thanks for stopping by. It is always great to see you.
Au Revoir –
Lori 🙂
It’s too much pressure when everyone wants you on their team in Pictionaryâ„¢. I tell everyone that the secret to success in that game is more about having good guessers than having good drawers.
I agree Brent…haha! I am not a great doodler, but because I am an artist, everyone always wants me on their team!
Thanks for your thoughts-
Lori 🙂
Yes, even I am dating an artist. They are very passionate and creative people and need loving too.
Hahaha! Yes we do! Thanks for loving an artist…and for the comment Kevin.
Lori 🙂
waoo im aritst too …:)
loved this article it is soo true…
I once lost a pictionary round because my drawing was upside down and I didn’t have the good sense to turn it around for my partner to get what it was I had drawn. Draw well, sure. Intelligent, working on it.
Haha! Tom…that is funny. Thanks for the humorous comment. Good seeing you here again.
Lori 😀
I am a filmmaker and my boyfriend is a writer. We are both in graduate school. We attend different graduate schools. We rarely have time for each other because we work on many projects throughout the week but when we are together, it is AMAZING. Because we are both at the same point in our careers, creative types, and idealists the relationship works out well. We understand each other and we accept and appreciate each other’s eccentricities.
It sounds like you are a true testament for dating an artist! Thanks for sharing your story.
Cheers-
Lori
Here’s three reasons not to:
1. They’re too busy with projects to spend time with you. Or they work odd hours in their part-time job so they’re never free at the same time as you.
2. They don’t have enough money to help you with the rent/mortgage for the house you’re both interested in. This also presents barriers to starting/supporting a family.
3. They want you to move to a different state/country because art is more socially accepted there, but you won’t be able to do your job because of the language and/or qualifications barriers.
Well hello…it sounds like you know this from personal experience – haha! Thanks for sharing some thoughtful reasons why you should NOT date an artist. I can add one more to this list of yours…artists shouldn’t date each other! I have witnessed my single artist friends relationships and it seems that their egos get in the way. Instead of being supportive of one another, I have watched them compete. I know this isn’t true for everyone, but it looks to be a common phenomenon.
Lori
My girlfriend would agree with this post 🙂
We haven’t played Pictionary is a while, but she always gets me to do the tough ones when she’s playing Draw Something on her iPad.
Cheers
Good to see you here again Scotty. Glad you enjoyed this cheeky little post. It has been a fun one…
Smiles-
Lori
Hi, I’m an artist and I think true artists nowadays like there are too few. I’m a young writer and I would love at least to meet another artist whatever if they paint or sing…etc, etc I’ve never met someone like me, and I’d really love to have someone with several things in common. I guess being in they same ship maybe I could have with someone, And I also think it would be very good to have my male inspiration 😛 hehe you know what I mean and be an inspiration for the other. But it does not happen, doesn’t matter at least to meet other artists would be fine. Just curious do you think that relationships between artists are bad or something?
Hi Scarlett,
Personally, I have never dated an artist. I have always wanted to, but it just has not happened. I have many friends who have married or dated fellow artists, and it doesn’t always end happily. Egos and competition sometimes get in the way. Dating and artist is a nice, romantic notion – if you find one that makes you happy, that’s all that matters!
Good luck-
Lori
I’m an artist and have not had the chance to date another artist. My mentor at university is a fantastic painter and his wife is too. I have watched them for many years and they have had to work at their marriage just like “normal” people do. But the level of creativity in their home is fantastic. They are a great success story for the artist + artist relationship concept. So, where can artists go to meet their dream person/artist? Is there an artist dating site?
Hi Dale,
I don’t know of an artist dating site, but it would be a fun idea! A lot of people use FB that way and have met new friends there. Other than that, I’d suggest art shows, workshops, museums, and art fairs. Good luck!
Lori
i am an artist and …let just say while alot of the girls i know love my work none seem to be terribly interrested in me….curse of a small southern town i guess every girl i know seems to be more into the captian of the football team type than the i got up at 4 am to try and capture the sunrise on canvas type….
Chase, many apologies for the belated reply!! I live in a small town too, and I know how you feel!